Change Your Life

Posted: January 22, 2012 in self-improvement
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some people could live their entire life with one day repeated itself again and again. Because they don’t have the guts the change their lives and the biggest reason for that is the fear of risk and changing itself .

So how you could change your life to live it like you want in an adventurous ,funny,crazy and worthy way.  let’s the most important things that are going to help you changing :
  1. Find Your Life’s Purpose : this’s one of the most important things that make a person happy in his life . If you discover what you want to do in your life and what you enjoy to do ,you’ll live in a excited environment and that will make you more active about making your life worthy and counted .
  2. Risk In Your Life : Remember that the biggest risk you can take in life is not risking at all . so by risk you can loose and you can win ,it’s 50/50 .but not risking at all you will put yourself and your life in a expected future and maybe you’ll never get better , maybe your life will get worst by the same routine everyday .
  3. Don’t Fear Of Rejection : people always hesitate in doing things they want badly because they’re afraid of getting rejected but by their hesitating and fear of rejection they punish themselves by more worst thing is REGRET. in our lives we get rejected more than accepted , so stop hesitating of doing what you want and go for it if you really want it .
  4. Be Independent : if you don’t depend on anyone and start doing your jobs and stuffs by yourself and earn your own money to live . the result that you’ll become a more confident and more successful in your life .
  5. Have Many Interest : if you have a lot to do you’ll never get bored . if you have many interest in your life you’ll become an interesting person in the eyes of yourself first and others .
  6. Exercise : don’t be a lazy person , make that blood in your veins to flow . working out has a major influence in your mind and in your body , it’ll make your mind think clear and your body to be healthy and those two make a huge difference in life.
  7. Always Learn New Things : what you had learned yesterday will benefit you today , as many things you know is best . learn foreign languages , read books , learn new things about technology .anything you like .
  8. Perfect Is Boring : stop trying to be perfect , no one can be perfect because no one can know everything or learn everything ; beside perfect is boring , improve yourself and your life but never try to be perfect because you just can’t .
  9. Travel : this’s one of the best things in life , by traveling you’ll learn new things , discover new cultures , meeting new people , doing adventurous/crazy things . try to travel as many times you can .
  10. Live . Laugh . Love : first you need to have an own life, that mean you’ll be a happy person , and by being alive and happy you’ll always find love by yourself and by others . but don’t try to mix those 3 things remember LIVE .LAUGH .LIVE  .

A lot of people say that there are a lot of things we can’t change in our lives because this is the way the world goes. Sorry guys that way of thinking will make you the biggest losers ever. I know that there are losers and winners in this life, this’ normal for the life goes on but let me ask one question: “what’s the real way you think about your achievements, successes and disappointments, failures?”

If you think that your success is the end of your hard works and learning in that field you’ve succeeded in it , your thinking will cause you many a lot of boring because now you’re a successful human being so you’ll stop learning new stuffs , dream by new things to reach and just lay dawn and do nothing .

And the same thing with failures, if you give up in every fail you’ll stay at the same place. Actually let yourself fail because every fail is a n experience and that mean you’ll know what you did it wrong and you’ll not do it again next time so always don’t let failure stop you from living your life and never let success cause you boring .

Always learn new things, dream new dreams, act spontaneous and live your life man

But if you were a re-newer person that never goes to bed until he learn something new and step a step to reach some own dream. When you wake up in the morning think optimistically about your day and live by the rule of “” LIVE. LAUGH. LOVE ““, that way you’ll be a much much successful person or we should say a winner and by LIVE. LAUGH. LOVE, I mean you need to live your life and love your own life and yourself, and that way you’ll be satisfied about your life that mean you’re having fun in your life and that in the same time mean that they’re a lot of love in your life for you to life and from other people.

Make every day interesting, catch your dreams, don’t worry about tomorrow, and learn from yesterday.

Control your thinking, think optimistically, live and have fun, in the end you’ll live only once.

 

  • Love Yourself: u need to be in love with yourself if u want others love you, because if you don’t I guarantee to u that no one is going to love you for real except in some situations.
  • Look Good: you don’t need to be that person who makes people stay away from his way because of his bad look and by look I don’t mean the outside beauty because in that way you’ll be a superficial person. so start wearing a nice clothes ; shave ; start exercises and stuffs like that .
  • Learn to Listen: the most powerful thing make u as an interesting person is make others feel as an important person to you even if you just meet him/her. So start listen more than talk and you’ll see the big improvement in your communication skills.
  • Make Eye Contact: I know that you hear this a lot in any article of communication & relations & others topics, but this is a very important behavior that make others feel that you are interesting in them and that way you will get a huge benefits of this action.
  • Smile: this magic action we did, the smile has a huge role to make people feel relax when they talk to you and be around you.
  •  Don’t Act Needy and Insecure: never look as a needy person and seem like a lonely person who have a miserable life and need to someone to bring the happiness to it .
  •  Be Funny : this is always be an importing thing to make people love to be with you.
  • Be confident : if you’re not confident fake it till you make it.
  • Positive body language : this has a very influence in the impression you make.

Get a Life

Posted: October 16, 2011 in self-improvement

if u had those traits & characterstics in ur personality try to move them away from ur life forever 
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** critique …. never critique urself or others iven if u r wrong or others wrong**
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**compare…. never compare urself with others coz ur life & their lifes r so much different **
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**blame…… never blame urself or blame others about ur faults or their faults ….try to take some responsibility of ur actions & behaviors **
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Finally ………. Get A Life …….Its Not Matter How’s Ur Life Now…… U R Poor Or Rich

6 Ways to Reach What You Want

Posted: October 16, 2011 in self-improvement
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I won’t say that this is easy but you just after read this article to start take actions. Because we all know the way to success is hard but it’s not impossible so let’s start making some big things in our lives

  • Be Social: People who are not social they always find the path of their lives is much harder than the social ones , and that because if you want to have a wonderful life you need to deal with people and communicate with them so this a very important character.
  • Be Spontaneous: I know that you’ll find this weird but let’s face the fact , if you are that kind of person who think too much in every action he take , honestly the time that he waste in thinking is more than time he make those ideas real . So start to do what you want without a lot of thinking. 
  • Be Adventurous: This best because the adventurous person never been afraid of failure, or pay a lot of worrying   to the future. Start daring life & bring some pleasure to your life. 
  • Just Try: Never say in the first that you can’t make something happen or u can’t do it , you even don’t try it to figure how is it . So if you have something you feel that is hard to reach just try & try again& try one more time till you get what you want.
  • Make Many Plans: If you really want to be a successful person you need to have many plans and many dreams you want reach, which mean if some plan didn’t work out, you move to the other one and that way you’ll reach the success somehow for sure.
  • Do What You Want: This is the basic one, if you want really to be happy and reach your dreams, you have to do what you want not what others tell you to do.